EEK! Pressure!

We've been invited to a birthday party on Saturday night. It's a friend's 40th birthday tomorrow. They have little kids, they get it as far as the Halloween thing and so she is graciously pushing back her celebration one day so it's a good weekend for all.
I met the woman through our girls at preschool. We've gotten together for a few playdates but as far as I know, FG has never met her, her husband or really her kids except in brief passing at preschool. FG isn't the most socially outgoing person. He's fine but I am sure he would rather stay home than go to a party with people he doesn't know at a house belonging to people he's never met. While I don't know the family all that well, I like what I do know and am happy to be included in her celebration. So I worked on finding a sitter. Limited funds won't allow me to hire a sitter now and the grandparents aren't working out this weekend. Dang.
Then I get a phone call from the husband who says, "We'd really like to have you guys at the party. We've hired a sitter and I don't think it's a problem if you just bring your kids over with you. I know how it's tough to find someone sometimes so bring them with." Now really, HOW can I say "No thanks." to that?! FG will just have to suck it up and I already told him I know this isn't his first choice but I would really like to go.
So we're going. We'll bring along a bottle of wine. Then I hear my friend in the background after I asked her husband if there's anything we can bring. She says, "No, unless she wants to bake something."
Ahhhhh!!! You would think this is old hat for me. EVERYONE wants me to bake something. Every time. I'm always assigned DESSERT. The problem right now is I don't know what to make. I guess it's time to go through the old recipe lists and see what I can do. I'm already making an apple pie to take to dinner at FIL's house on Sunday. The best thing about Saturday is the fact if I have to bring dessert, I don't know anyone! So they've never had anything I have made. I can take ANYTHING! Yipee!!!!! When we get together with our regular groups of friends, they all expect different things. Hee hee hee. So I have pressure to make something good because my friend said, "I've had her baking and I won't pass it up." (She had the pumpkin chocolate cake here when she & her kids came over to make pizzas while our DH's were both out of town.) I have reduced pressure because there's nothing I can't bring. Well, except maybe the same pumpkin chocolate cake. Then I'll be labeled "The girl who makes the pumpkin chocolate cake."

My next problem.... WHEN am I going to figure out what to make? I'm totally slammed with kid stuff between now & then and I have plans to clean the carpets in part of the downstairs before the 2nd grade Halloween party today. I have to iron DD's dress, gather the stuff for the party, gather the stuff for the trick or treating event after the party, gather the stuff I need to take to my parent's house....... then of course tomorrow is Halloween and we have 3 different trick or treating events to go to with friends. The only thing keeping me going is the fact I will soon have boatloads of candy in this house. We are seriously low on chocolate and I don't function well without my daily dose.

Because I won't remember tomorrow....

I am at the end of one of those "Super Woman/Super Mom" Days. You know the days where you have 10,000 things to do and you manage to get 10,001 things done? They are rare but they occasionally occur and when they do, you feel like puffing up your chest and holding your head high. So I'm going to pat myself on the back, toot my own horn, whatever. I'm gonna be proud of myself before I collapse into my bed and start round 2 tomorrow.
For those of you that have these days every day, Shut up and let me be happy. For those of you that think this is no big deal, Shut up and let me be happy. For those of you that have more children, more responsibilities, a high power job, heck, a paying job, Shut up and let me be happy.
Today:
Got out of bed at 6:30
Trudged downstairs and let the dogs outside
Usual shower, etc.
Got DS up
He requested a waffle & bacon for breakfast. Waffle was a frozen homemade one. Bacon was cooked fresh.
Made FG, DD and I egg mc muffins w/ bacon
Packed DS's lunch
Vacuumed the downstairs (yes, at 8:30 am!)
Got DD dressed in her Dorothy dress
CURLED her hair. Her ultra baby fine hair that she asked me to curl with a curling iron even though she's terrified of it. It was a fight but she ended up with adorable bouncy curls.
Gathered canned/boxed food for the food drive for DS's school
Grabbed the camera to take DD's pic at school
Packed DD's lunch with all the requested items
Got DD to school at 9:15
Took her picture with her teacher & a friend
Ran to the office to do some work
Went to Michael's for game prizes for DS's class party tomorrow & picked up a few little crafty Christmas presents for my kids (LOVE those 40% off coupons every week!)
Went to DS's school to help the teacher at 10:45
Took down all the artwork on the bulletin board in the hallway (1 million used staples anyone?)
Hung up new artwork/stories on the bulletin board
Cut apart other artwork that had been laminated and hung that on the wall around the bulletin board AFTER I hunted down some masking tape
Nearly got ran over by the 4th, 5th & 6th graders as they went to lunch!
Came home & gathered the dirty laundry
Changed out the bathroom towels
Hid the Christmas gifts I bought for the kids
Made a sandwich for me & then FG showed up and made himself one
Mixed up 4 pie crusts
Picked up DD from preschool
Sat down for 10 minutes and ate a Snickers bar
Emptied the dishwasher
Loaded the dishwasher
Did some dishes
Filled the ice cube bin & refilled the trays (I don't like ice makers)
Mixed up the filling for a quiche for dinner
Rolled out and baked one pie crust
Wrapped the others up to use this weekend
Cleaned up after all of that (more dishes and that includes drying them)
Cleaned DD's Ruby Slippers (sand from school :( )
Cleaned up cat puke
Took some laundry out of the dryer & folded it
Ironed half of the clothes in the ironing basket (most importantly, DS's clothes for his costume tomorrow)
Swept the kitchen & bathroom floors
Put the ironing stuff away
Chatted with a neighbor when I met DS coming off the school bus
Met my friend at the door when she dropped off her two DS's
Got the kids a snack
Got dinner ready & into the oven
Set the oven to come on while I was at the boy's acting class
Changed out a booster seat because neither boy was willing to sit in the pink seat
Left friend's DS & my DD at home with FG while I took the older boys to acting class
Took notes on DS's lines while they rehearsed
Finished cooking dinner when we got home from acting class
Fed the kids dinner
Fed FG and I dinner
Helped FG clean up after dinner
Washed dishes
Bathed DD
Put folded laundry away
Read DD bedtime stories
Helped DS get ready for bed
Cleaned out lunchboxes
Took out recycling
Put stain stick on DD's Dorothy dress so I can wash & iron it in the morning
Ran back up the stairs 5 times for various things the kids needed
Read a couple blogs & commented
Typed all of this out

Now I'm dead tired and I'm headed to my own bed! Besides the 10 minutes I sat down this afternoon, the 5 minutes I sat down to eat dinner and sitting on the floor at school cutting out the artwork, I didn't sit down from 6:30 am until 9 pm. Tomorrow is a little better but not much! I don't have as hectic of a morning but I have a hectic afternoon. Anyone else really looking forward to that extra hour this weekend?

Follow the Yellow Brick Road....

A preview. My mom brought it by yesterday and DD is beyond excited. She's in love with the shoes most of all but she gave her Grannie 10,000 kisses yesterday for sewing her costume.

Thankfully she gets to wear it 3 times this week. To preschool tomorrow (they are supposed to dress as Farmers for their "Harvest Party", hey, it's a church preschool. FG says, "Dorothy was a farmer!" so I'm letting her wear it.) Thursday she'll come with me to help with DS's class party and then we're going to a trick or treat function at a local shopping center where my friend's wine store is located. Friday, obviously, is Halloween and we're going with some friends to another local trick or treat event at a gym in the morning then I'll put tights and a turtleneck on her for nighttime TorTing.
DS is going to be a Vampire. NOT Dracula as he keeps insisting but just a Vampire. See, he's actually a vampire and when I think he's sleeping at night, he actually flies out the window to meet his vampire gang and they go bite people. They are nice though and don't kill anyone. They just eat a little blood, play with their pet bats and fly around. This whole fantasy has been going on for quite awhile now, I would say at least a year. So his costume this year was easy. A white button up shirt, a cape we've had for ages, black dress pants, black hairspray, white make-up, fake blood. He doesn't want to wear teeth and I can't blame him. With his oral sensitivities I didn't even spend the money on a set of fake teeth.
I'll wear my usual black witch hat. Except DD is worried a house will fall on me. I guess that makes me the Wicked Witch.

Menu Plan Monday and update

First I'll post this week's menu. I'm trying VERY hard to not go to the grocery store if I can help it. I know I will have to go for milk but the budget may not allow me to do any big shopping. We are seriously out of veggies. ARGH!

• Sunday - Pork Roast w/ honey, rosemary, garlic, salt & pepper, olive oil glaze, mashed sweet potatoes, corn, homemade buttermilk biscuts, brownies
• Monday - Chicken Picatta, parmesean cous cous, carrots
• Tuesday - Beef Fajitas, wagon wheel noodles
• Wednesday - (watching my friend's kids after acting class, not home until 6:15) Chicken Nuggets, mac & cheese, green beans, apple slices
• Thursday - Frozen pizza
• Friday - Trick or Treat! Soup & Grilled cheese if I can keep the kids in their seats long enough to EAT anything!
• Saturday - Roasted Chicken & ?????
• Sunday - Dinner at FIL's house.

* Exported from MasterCook *
Chicken Picatta

4 boned and skinned chicken breast halves

1 egg

3 tablespoons lemon juice

1/4 cup flour

1/8 teaspoon garlic powder

1/8 teaspoon paprika

1/4 cup butter or margarine

2 chicken bouillon cube

1/2 cup boiling water
Beat egg with 1 T. lemon juice. Mix flour, garlic and paprika. Coat chicken in egg then in flour mixture. In skillet, melt margarine and brown chicken. Dissolve bouillon in boiling water and add 2T. lemon juice. Pour liquid into skillet, cover & simmer for 20 minutes. Turn chicken after 10 minutes.

Now that's done, here's an update on me & us. First, money is TIGHT. The good thing about owning your own business is that when it's good, it's usually great. But when things are bad, it sucks. There is no "regular pay". So with the economy the way it is, it's affecting everyone, us included. I'm trying to find creative ways to save money, thinking about possibly finding a part time job but that's not going well either. There is way too many people looking and I have limited time available because of the kids. We'll see. FG is very sweet and when I suggest something he tells me it will make me miserable and he only wants me to find something that I would like to do. But I'm open to doing something that wouldn't be ideal if I need to. Again, we'll see.

We attended the family reunion for FG's Father's Family this past weekend. FIL is one of nine kids, they all had a bunch of kids and FG is one of the youngest of the cousins. So the cousins are almost all married with kids. My kids have no first cousins as I am an only child and FG's brother doesn't have kids. Relatively speaking, our immediate families are very small. They got to go meet a gazillion cousins this weekend as well as great aunts & uncles that they don't see often or have never met. I think the last one of these we attended DS was a baby so that was 7 years ago and DD wasn't even a glimmer in our eyes. We got crap on Friday for not bringing the kids. Um, HELLO. They had been at school all day, DS came home from school complaining of not feeling well and his head felt warm. He rarely gets ill. It was chaos where we were and when I saw one of the 5 year old girls crying at 9:45 I felt total sympathy for her mom. They are from the east coast too so the time difference alone was 3 hours, on top of most 5 year olds are not up that late on a normal basis. FG and I knew we made the right decision to have our kids stay with his mom for the night and get a decent night's sleep so they could play all day the next day. Yet, we still got questioned and goaded for not bringing them. "Don't you want them to know their family?" Yes, but we also want them to be happy about it. "Don't you want them to be a part of this?" Yes, but we have to put their needs first and they are little kids, not grown up's who can handle all of this all the time. Ugh. We got to visit with the family and not have to be constantly worried about them. Saturday we were there all day and evening and everyone had a good time. My kids were excellent! At one point, the kids were downstairs doing a handprint project for the uncle turning 70. DS came upstairs to ask me if it was ok for him to paint his hand and participate. They asked me every time they went from one house to another (essentially a main house and the giant garage/workshop we were having meals etc. in). They asked me every time they were going to change activities where there was any question about where they would be (in a room where I didn't expect them to be etc.). I was very proud of them. They were kind to their cousins, pleasant and appreciative to their aunts & uncles and just in general good kids for us.

I on the other hand still had my headache. FG rubbed my neck and shoulders and helped ease some of the tension. I ended up having to keep taking my meds but they kept making me feel weird too. Yesterday was AWFUL. Full on migraine. (Thankfully we didn't attend any more of the reunion). It's due to hormones and I get the worst of it when my hormones shift. Oh man. I managed to feed the kids breakfast, clean it up and get to the couch. FINALLY late in the afternoon I started to feel human again. I made a great dinner, did a little project with the kids and got everything cleaned up. Then as they were going to bed it started to rear it's ugly head again. I managed to get through it with no more drugs and I'm hoping I can not take any for awhile now. Yikes.

Now I'm facing the week with the Halloween Festivities. Lots to do for the kids both at home and school. It's going to be a busy one!

Relief needed

I've got a headache. Not quite a migraine but close. I've had it for a few days. I'm tired of taking drugs and feeling all woozy and out of sorts but I'm also tired of having a headache and feeling the need to keep one eye closed.

Sorry no menu plan or recipes this week.
This weekend is a Family Reunion on FG's Dad's side. They are huge. As in HUGE amounts of people. I'm not sure how my kids are going to do. DS's sensory issues are going to go into overdrive and I'll be damned if I can adequately explain it. I'm not even going to try with these people as they will just think something is "wrong" with him. DD doesn't like crowds so I fully expect her to hide in my neck or on Daddy's shoulder. All these people know who they (my kids) are, they (my kids) don't have a clue who these people are. And well, you know, they are family so the kids are automatically supposed to take to them, right? Why are people so damn stupid?

So I'll be absent with no recipes for several days. Thankfully we don't have to travel to the reunion - it's close as we live in a spot lots of people love to visit. We even got MIL to take the kids overnight on Friday so FG and I can go be around the family without overwhelming the kids. They will be there ALL day Saturday, that will be plenty for all of us.

oy, I need another dose of migraine meds. ARGH.

Monday Monday

No menu plan yet - I'll post that later today.

I am feeling much better. I'm a bit out of my funk.
And I've jumped on the Facebook bandwagon. I have to say, it's addicting and exciting. I have found several old friends and have caught up with them, found out about the sorority reunion breakfast yesterday because of it, learned a few things about old friends and new. I'm liking it. The Grown up version of Myspace but with better security. I like that no one can see my stuff unless I know them. I have been chatting with three old friends from high school that were very dear to me. I screwed things up big time by dating the jerk I did. These friends were guys, GREAT friends of mine, and that didn't go over well when I started dating a guy they didn't like. It didn't go over well with my controlling boyfriend that I had 1 best girlfriend and 4 best guy friends. I ended up losing all of them except the boyfriend. I stayed with him for 5 years until I met FG one day and decided it was time to kick this guy to the curb. I realize now how much I screwed up and what I lost from it. I sure hope I don't sit and watch my daughter make the same mistake. I don't know how I'll stop her because no one was going to stop me back then. But I will be damned if I sit and watch without nagging the crap out of her about my own life mistakes! Poor thing.

Anyway, it's been a good thing for me to bring me out of my funk. It's been nice to know that those friends of mine still care about me and have been thinking of me as I have them. Even though we'll never be close again, it's nice to feel that my past choices didn't completely change who I really am.

La de dahhhh

Oh I'm bored! I could be doing lots of things but none of them seem overly exciting right now. I've been in a funk lately. With a Capital F. No wall unit (boo hoo!), no granite counters (yet, FG says "it's not over."), no window shade... Wahhhh! All the little upgrades and changes I was looking forward to on our house shot right out the window in one day. I keep telling myself to be happy I HAVE a home because a lot of people are facing losing theirs. It still hasn't gotten me out of my funk though.
I can't BELIEVE we are not going to the homecoming football game today. I mean, really, I can't believe it. I guess I should have been more stern with FG and told him that we should go. He gave me a bunch of really dumb excuses as to why "we" decided not to go but it boiled down to that he just didn't feel like going. ARGH! I don't think I've missed a homecoming game in oh, 19 years. Maybe on the rare instance that I was out of town or something but nope, I've gone to every one of them since I started college in 1989. (Quit yer laughing at the old lady!) Instead I get to go to a birthday party for a 5 year old with a bunch of other 4 & 5 year olds. Whoohoo. And I may have to get into a bathing suit while I'm there! This is the month for ghosts and horror and me in a bathing suit would fulfill both of those instantly.
Tomorrow I do get to go to a reunion with some sorority sisters. That will be fun except I know most of them have kept in touch and I haven't talked to most of them, except in passing, in years. I know, I know, good time to get reconnected right? Sure. I guess so. I just feel like a loser because I am so far removed from it all now. And I have two huge zits on my face. Wheeee!!!!
Usually I look forward to weekends because we have something fun planned. This weekend, nothing. Ho hum. I should bake, I should clean something, I should go read a book or watch a movie. I should enjoy the relaxing. But this darn funk has me saying I just want to go to sleep until something exciting happens.
I shall return a happier person, hopefully with a recipe or two!

Big Bummer

I just got off the phone with FG. He got the quote for the built in unit we had planned for the front room. His client did not give him any sort of great deal. In fact, he added 10% PROFIT to the already outrageous price he quoted! So this will not get done. I'm totally bummed because I know he & I were both really looking forward to it. It will have to wait.

On a better note, we may (and I say may because it isn't started yet and I really don't want to jinx this one!) be getting granite counters next week. Which means I will be without a kitchen for a week but hey, I'll deal so I can have pretty new counters! Now I just hope that one doesn't fall flat either. :( We were just so looking forward to the transformation of downstairs with the addition of the built in unit and the new counters.

Oh, and the shade for the big front window above the entry way.... yeah, that's not happening yet either! Wow! That was one very very pricey shade. We've lived without it for 8 years, I'm sure we'll survive. But maybe that will kick me in the rear to finally pick a paint color for the wall and find a good fabric to make (read, have my mother make, maybe as my Christmas present) a curtain for that window. I don't want to cover the whole thing, I just want to give it some dimension. Right now it's a boring blank white wall, a big blank window and a shelf with some cool travel themed items on it like our metal globe on a tripod that I adore. The white and plain and boring needs to go!

Alrighty, off to take DD to a playdate. The mom graciously invited her over and told me I could take a few hours to myself. I don't have anything exciting to get done but it will recharge me a bit to play some more with her this afternoon.

Easy Enchiladas

Sorry, no picture. They looked just like enchiladas though. Trust me. I think we've all seen enchiladas.

Easy Enchiladas

1 cups shredded cooked chicken (I used leftover turkey)

1/4 cup chopped onion (I used green onions because I had 'em)

3 cups shredded cheddar cheese, divided

1 cup sour cream, divided

1 10 oz can of Enchilada Sauce

6-8 8" tortillas

Preheat oven to 350 degrees, lightly grease a 9 x 13 baking dish.

In a saucepan melt together the can of enchilada sauce, 2 cups cheese, 1/4 cup sour cream until smooth. Pour a small amount into bottom of the baking dish and spread evenly.

In bowl, mix chicken, onion, 3/4 cup sour cream and 1 cup cheddar cheese.

Warm tortillas so they are easy to fold. Fill evenly with chicken mixture. Roll and place seam side down in baking dish on top of sauce.

Top enchiladas with remaining sauce.

Bake for 20 - 30 minutes until hot & bubbly.

Sprinkle with chopped green onions, cilantro, black olives if desired.

This seemed to make a lot of sauce. I may cut it back a little next time but it didn't overwhelm the dish. I just saw that there was a lot left in the pan after we ate the enchiladas. I used mild sauce so it wasn't too spicy for the kids. Though they only ate 1 or 2 bites each. FG and I both enjoyed them though and I'm looking forward to having one for lunch today too. These could be made vegetarian (Liz :) ) with spinach or even with cooked small shrimp.

Enjoy!

It's Monday, time for a menu!

It's slowly warming up but still pretty cold here for this time of year. The snow, eh, I'm just not ready for it! I don't like going from sleeping with the window open to sleeping all bundled up, heat running and long jammies on. I prefer the gradual change. But the past few years that certainly hasn't happened. We've just jumped right from one season to the next here.



That said, my meals have changed. Saturday night when it was so cool, FG requested soup & grilled cheese. Now this week I'm planning pretty much nothing on the grill because I don't mind having to run the oven - it keeps me toasty warm in the kitchen. Here's my menu for the week. Lately things have been fairly "Fly By The Seat Of Our Pants" with FG gone so much.

• Sunday - Roasted Turkey, roasted acorn squash, garlic mashed potatoes, stuffing (in the bird), corn (for the kids & SMA because they won't eat squash), pumpkin cheesecake.


• Monday - Enchiladas (with leftover turkey), rice, cabbage salad.


• Tuesday - Leftover turkey dinner - meat, gravy, stuffing and I'll make a fresh veggie.


• Wednesday - I'll make creamed turkey for myself and whatever the kids request for themselves - they have tried it and don't like it. FG is gone.


• Thursday - FG gone again. The kids and I will have quesadillas w/ beans, veggies and fruit on the side.


• Friday - Homemade sausage & pepperoni pizza


• Saturday - out.

Right now I'm making the stock out of the turkey carcass. I am going to freeze it in small containers of 1 or 2 cups each. ***

It really wasn't bad to save the carcass. I just had the pot out with the neck in it when I cleaned and prepped the turkey. Then I stuck it in the refrigerator and pulled it back out when I was cleaning all the leftover meat after dinner. It was a 12 lb. turkey for 3 adults and 2 kids. I sent a bunch home with SMA and still have plenty to feed us for the rest of the week. Now I'll get a great stock from it as well. I bought the turkey last year and kept it in my big deep freezer. I think I paid around $4 or $5 for it when they are super cheap around Thanksgiving. Ok, I just paid that for a chicken the other day as well and the turkey will get us more meals than 1 chicken will! FG kept asking, "WHY are you making this big turkey for just us?" Then I explained the $$ side of it and he got it. How economical is that?! I get 4 dinners for us out of it (two for SMA with what I sent home), lunches for me by way of sandwiches then the stock to make a great soup or whatever I need stock for later! ***

That should make up for what I paid for pumpkins last week.

Sorry, DD never looks at the camera! And I got my hair done this weekend - whew!

***I got over 15 cups of yummy smelling and looking stock! I used six 2-cup plastic containers and put them in the freezer then I have one 1-cup jar and one 2-cup jar in the fridge. Whoohooo!!!!!

Random Friday

• It's Fucking Snowing. Forgive my language but DAMN! I knew it was coming. I watched the weather but holy shit it was hard to get out of my toasty bed at 6:30 this morning when it was dark and FREEZING. I had on sandals on Monday. And short sleeves.
• I worked at DS's school for 2 hours today. We are fortunate that there is an overabundance of parent volunteers. The kids are so cute. I am loving being there and listening to how the teachers interact with the children as well. FG told me maybe I should get a teaching certificate. I have thought about it but then I would have to deal wtih OKP. I think what I'm doing now is just fine for now. I like being there. DS knows I'm there to help with his teacher and class. And I get to spy on the other kids abilities when I'm checking homework. I was thankful today that about half of the class missed a question on a paper. Completely missed doing it altogether. Can you guess which half DS was in? Yep. We didn't even see it either. Also, when I'm making copies, I know what work he has coming up.
• Today is Friday. I don't have to get out of my warm bed at 6:30 tomorrow morning. I don't have to pack lunches, don't have to make sure the backpack has all the necessities, don't have to lay out clothes tonight for everyone, don't have to remind them to EAT constantly. Oh wait, no matter when it is I have to do that every meal. Damn.
• My father found out who I'm voting for and it isn't who he's voting for. He hasn't disowned me yet. I'm shocked. Hey, maybe he's figured out I am an adult with the brain in my head to form my OWN opinions. "I'm just a girl...." (thank you Gwen Stefani).
• My parents are taking my children away from me tonight. Whoohooo!
• FG and I are going out for sushi! And wine. Because I've never tried sake.
• Then we're coming home to get naked and hop into bed and I'm not going to worry about any sorts of noises I may make. (giggles like a school girl)
• Then we're going to catch up on some shows on the DVR, UNinterrupted.
• FG is getting up early Saturday to go play in a golf tournament at his club aptly named The Icicle Open. Ha! He's going to freeze his ass off!
• I get to sleep in and have a lazy morning to myself.
• I'm cooking a turkey dinner on Sunday. I'm going to attempt to save the bones and make stock too. Can you believe I've never done that?! Usually by the time the whole sha-bang is finished I'm over the whole cooking thing and don't want to look at any turkey bones. This weekend, discipline baby, discipline! (And FG and SMA doing all the dishes :D)

My turn for the Grammar Police!

I'm joining up. Right now.
Pet Peeve #1 - THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS FIRST ANNUAL! It cannot be annual until you have had another one. The first of any yearly event is called "Inaugural".

Pet Peeve #2: Please do not say "I seen it" or "ain't" That is terrible grammar and your 3rd Grade teacher would really be ashamed.

One of my friend's biggest pet peeves is the misuse of lay/lie/laid. I cannot for the life of me remember the rules of it. So I'm sorry for the many times I am sure I have annoyed her with my own misuse!

OK, got that off my chest. Back to 2nd grade homework!

Chocolate Chip Pumpkin Cake

I made this yesterday. I was worried because it seemed dense and I thought for sure it was going to be dry. But it was surprisingly moister than I imagined. It isn't a moist cake like a traditional chocolate cake but it wasn't as dense and dry as a pound cake type either. The flavor was excellent and I really enjoy the cinnamon in with the chocolate. I got it from the Taste Of Home mag.

Chocolate Chip Pumpkin Cake

Ingredients:
3/4 cup butter, softened
1-1/2 cups sugar
1/2 cup packed brown sugar
2 eggs
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
2-1/2 cups all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon baking powder
1 teaspoon baking soda
1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1 can (15 ounces) solid-pack pumpkin
1 cup (6 ounces) semisweet chocolate chips
2 squares (1 ounce each) unsweetened chocolate, melted and cooled
3/4 cup finely chopped pecans, divided
Directions: In a large mixing bowl, cream butter and sugars until light and fluffy. Add eggs, one at a time, beating well after each addition. Beat in vanilla. Combine the flour, baking powder, baking soda and cinnamon; add to the creamed mixture alternately with pumpkin. Fold in chocolate chips. Divide batter in half. Stir melted chocolate into one portion. In a well-greased 10-in. fluted tube pan, sprinkle 1/2 cup pecans. Spoon chocolate batter over pecans; top with pumpkin batter. Sprinkle with remaining pecans. Bake at 325° for 65-70 minutes or until a toothpick inserted near the center comes out clean. Cool for 15 minutes before removing from pan to a wire rack. Yield: 12 servings.

Now I'm going to go stuff some in my face because I did the Race for the Cure this morning with my cranky DD, my DS who wanted to walk farther (so did I actually but DD wouldn't have it), my MIL and her boyfriend. I emailed FG and asked him if I get brownie points for doing something with his mother while he's gone. Something that involved getting up really freaking early, dragging two unhappy kids out of bed and into a cold house because I refuse to turn on the furnace yet. All in all, it wasn't bad. MIL's boyfriend took us to IHOP for breakfast afterwards which is when DD straightened up and started acting like a good kid instead of the indignant brat she was earlier in the morning. It's a beautiful Sunday here, much nicer than yesterday's blustery weather, but the couch is calling my name rather than the outdoors. I guess I *was* outside for awhile today it was just unpleasant with having to drag along a uncooperative 4 year old. And we did this in honor of her preschool teacher from last year too!
Enjoy the cake if you decide to make it!

Time to change....

That is what it looks like out my bathroom window this morning. See the mountain top? The ski slopes that I will hopefully be swishing down in a couple of months? Yep, that would be snow up there! Fall has definitely arrived.

For me, that usually means cleaning. Along with the leaves changing and Mother Earth settling down for the cold months, I start changing things around the house as well. Yesterday I cleaned out the storage container outside, kicked out all the spiders living in the dead leaves inside and put away the outside toys. The kids can still get them out when it's a nice day but the scooters, bubble blowers, croquet set and rubber balls will no longer reside on the patio next to the back door for easy and daily access.

I got out my "seasonal tub" and packed away my shorts and capris along with summer blouses. I took out all of my hanging shirts and went through them. They either got smoothed out and fixed on the hangar to go back into the closet neatly or into a donate pile. I am embarrassed at how long I've had some of my clothes! Out came the velvet and wool pants and warm sweaters. As soon as I post this I'm going to attack my closet with the hose attachment of the vacuum and switch out all my cute sandals for my cool weather shoes. If I had a huge closet, I wouldn't need to do this every 6 months but at least it keeps me on top of things that I need to purge.

Next came DD's closet. I moved around her short sleeve shirts that are on hangars and her summer skirts. Her clothes are just a matter of switching sides of the closet and purging what doesn't fit. I have yet another bag of clothes to go to friends. I have several outfits that have tags on them for next summer, thanks to Gymboree and their 30% off Friends & Family sale along with summer clearance.

DS, who hasn't outgrown anything in years, is similar. Because we installed a closet organizer in his closet, it's a matter of moving the short sleeve nicer shirts up a rung and the long sleeve shirts down a rung. We've already gone through pants to see what needed to be tossed and what needed to be replaced. He's set except for winter boots and you know, maybe a new shirt or two so we can distinguish what year a picture was taken. Seriously, the kid has the same shirts he's had since Kindergarten. I do feed him. I really do.

FG changed the air filters last weekend. The kids and I got out the Halloween decorations and changed out the summer knick knacks to fall. I am going to make a yummy sounding pumpkin & chocolate swirl cake today. I bought chicken and leeks and want to make some soup (anyone have a great recipe that uses those? Please share!)

Change is definitely in the air. Often this time of year makes me sad because I have such fun in the summer with my kids. But this year I'm hosting Thanksgiving (again) and I've already picked a date for my annual Christmas party. I'm thinking of starting to bake even earlier this year. A couple of extra weeks in the freezer won't matter for those items I make that freeze well.

And I do have to mention something that just thrilled me. Yesterday DS got invited on a playdate to a friend's house. Twins actually. One of them was in his class last year and the other is in his class this year. I was overjoyed when they called yesterday to see if he could come play. DS can be quite a loner yet he wants everyone to like him. So I was a happy Momma when I dropped him off and they were very excited to see him. Then when I picked him up, their mom had the same reaction most adults do when they've spent time with him. "Oh, he's SMART. He's going to be somebody someday and do something big." She said this as she pointed to some elaborate space station looking thing he built out of Magnetix. When we got home, there was a message from another friend of his who was wanting him to play as well. This kid is 11, has a lot of the same sensory problems mine does and they get along beautifully. It definitely made me proud to hear that people wanted to be around him. Since FG is still gone we're having one of DD's friends over today with her mom & brother. The two boys play together fairly well and the girls have been friends for awhile too. We're going to do Make-Your-Own-Pizza and let the kids do their own. It should be fun and a good way to break up the weekend. Tomorrow is the Walk For The Cure and I'll have unhappy kids as I drag them out of bed early. We have to pick up MIL at 7:45. I better get some brownie points for doing something with MIL while FG is out of town!

Cross your fingers

Say a prayer, rub a belly, whatever you want to do.... just send me some good vibes.

DS earned back his PSP. He took it with him on the bus so he could play with his friend that has been letting him play with his for months. I labeled the crap out of that thing; hidden and obvious. I gave him very very specific instructions on the rules of the PSP. Only on the bus, to go immediately back into the FRONT pocket of the backpack (he doesn't get in there regularly so less chance it will fall out) when the bus approaches school and the stop for home in the afternoon, it is NOT to come out at school for recess or any other reason, no showing it off to friends at school, if it's lost it will NOT be replaced and he will also lose his allowance for 1 year. Oh yeah, I scared the shit out of the kid with this thing! He's just so easily distracted. I can see him putting it down on the bus seat to unzip his backpack, losing his train of thought and seeing it's time to exit the bus and blam! there is the PSP sitting on the seat all by it's lonesome until some dishonest little shit picks it up and keeps it. Hopefully because it is something he really cares about, he will take extra good care of it. He does hate to lose things, he gets really stressed out. Gee, I wonder where that could have come from???

*****It made it home safe and sound!****